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BERLIN -- Authorities say swingerclub feelings swingers' club in western Germany had to be evacuated mid-party after a carbon monoxide alarm went off and several guests reported feeling unwell. Firefighters in the town of Hattingen, between Dortmund and Duesseldorf in North Rhine-Westphalia, told the dpa news agency Sunday that about swingers were brought to safety after the alarm went off late Saturday night. The swingers, many clad just in bathrobes as they left the club, were taken on buses to be examined by first aid workers. About ten complained of feeling unwell and needed treatment. The fire department says no dangerous levels of carbon monoxide were detected once they had arrived.

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My husband is my life. He is my best friend, my rock, my confidant and an absolutey amazing father to our three children. We were high school sweethearts and spent all of our spare time together. We shared every aspect of our life and I could have never imagined my life with anyone else. Sexually we were very comfortable, and in our younger years dabbled in the world of swinging. The bond we had enabled us to share ourselves and each other, swingerclub feelings trust that our emotions and physical fun could be happily kept separate.

Once the kids were a little older and we were comfortable leaving them with a sitter, we started to re-ignite our social life, and began enjoying our weekends out again.

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The mention of visiting a swingers club where couples swap partners for an evening had come up a few times, and eventually we decided to take the plunge. We set our rules before we headed in, both extremely swingerclub feelings, neither knowing what to expect. The night was fabulous, we met amazing people, loved the friendly relaxed atmosphere and felt more than comfortable ending the night with the intentions we had in mind. Our bond became like nothing we had had before, the days following a night out we would chat endlessly about our experiences and opinions on different couples. We were husband and wife, and best friends.

Giving each other tips and tricks, giggling about terrible experiences and appreciating even more what we both had at home. He was older, and cheeky and I immediately swingerclub feelings drawn to him. We talked a lot during the night, and at some point a group of us had discussed attending another club close by, so we all exchanged s with the intention of making it a group event.

The next morning I awoke to a text message from Sam, telling me that he thought I was the sexiest woman in the club. I had never had anyone so openly compliment me, I felt proud and filled with excitement.

I showed my husband, who had a little giggle, but also questioned how Sam had my. It was a non issue between hubby and I, as we were both aware the exchanges were to plan for the following weekend. We all had an amazing night, and although there were no sexual encounters, I think we all realised we had established a pretty good group of mates.

Our first alcohol free, one-on-one chat. I felt extremely comfortable with him, and I knew he felt the same. I was disappointed when they had to leave that day, but looked forward to the many social events to come. Over the following weeks my husband and Sam became great mates, they would clown around at the club and I loved every minute swingerclub feelings three of us were together.

Sam and I continued to text, and there was a lot of flirting. Nothing unfaithful, and, at the time, nothing that either of us thought harmful. After what felt like months, the night finally came. I had had a little too much alcohol, as had he, but we had a great time. The sexual attraction I had built towards Sam over the weeks had become extremely strong, and I figured like most encounters at the club, once it had happened the sexual tension would ease.

My husband started to question swingerclub feelings my feelings were possibly starting to go too far, and in the beginning I would answer no, believing in my answer. Then came the morning I will never forget, well, one of many which would follow over the next few weeks. It was the morning after a group of us had been to the club and stayed together in a hotel. My amazing husband left a condom, and a note for us when he went to work telling us to have fun.

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I am guessing he also thought it could help to just get Sam out of my system. I was extremely shocked as this went against all of our rules, and was not something I would expect from him, but we had definitely grown over the months and had become more and more comfortable in different situations.

Sam and I took our time, unlike the hurried rush and awkwardness in the club. We kissed and touched, and connected. Too much.

We both looked at each other, for what felt like eternity, both knowing we had fallen way, way too far. I still loved my husband, in no way any less than before. He was still my world and the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with.

But suddenly I felt the same for someone else. Was it possible to love two people? Society says no. We tried to hide the feelings, and continue to function as friends but were also both eager to spend as much time together as we could.

S began to call in on the way home from work, or pop in and see me at work. It all changed the night Sam called in just before dinner one night when my husband was at work. He asked if we had dinner plans, and suggested we head to the beach and get some takeaways.

Myself, Sam, and my three children got in the car, and as we got onto the motorway I felt sick. What was I swingerclub feelings What were WE doing? It had become obvious to all that we had taken things too far, and become far too close. I felt suffocated and trapped by my own emotions.

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The night was stressful, it was clear I had completely ruined the beautiful friendship between my husband and Sam. The next morning my husband went to work as he aways did, and Sam and I were left at home. He came and lay with me on my bed, and we both cried. We kissed, we held each other, and we cried. That morning, we slept together without consent. For the first time in my life I cried while having sex. We both cried. Our hearts broke as we spent what we thought would be our final moments together.

Sam gathered his things, and stood at the door. For both of us, the tears were still relentless. I tried to put on a brave face, and when he asked what was swingerclub feelings I told him I was just a little hungover. He told me later he was so relieved I turned up that afternoon, as he had never felt anything like he was feeling, and his heart was breaking. I walked in the door, trying to pretend like it was any other day.

My husband had beaten me home, and seemed grumpy.

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The condom wrapper from Sam and my encounter earlier that morning. The next few days are a blur.

My husband was devastated, and I was devastated I had hurt my gorgeous caring man so much. How could he possibly believe I still loved him just the same, no less than before, when I would betray him like that. I took a lot of pain killers.

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A lot of valium. I slept. I cried. I tried to think but I saw no answer, so to stop the thinking I would just wash down the pain killers with more pain killers. I was numb. At first my husband would come into our room and ask me what I wanted to do.

He would come in and check I was still breathing. As the days passed he would come in and touch my back. Come in and cry with me.

German swingers' club evacuated after carbon monoxide alarm

Hold me. Although extremely angry at me, he could see this was serious. He knew me, he knew that I was struggling and when my words eventually came, he listened. There was a lot of talking. It had been a very long time since I had fallen in love with someone like I had my husband.

He invited Sam over, and we all talked and cried together. Believe it or not, we sat down, three adults, and discussed the situation realistically and with complete honesty. We discussed that if we were to have an open relationship and I was to see Sam a couple of nights a week, it would be fake, because there would be only romantic dates, no kids, no stress, no bad days, he would be getting the good, and very little of the bad. It was like someone winded me when hubby suggested Sam move in.